want to be Taken Care of or not? In an era where it takes two incomes to enjoy life. . if you can take care of yourself financially, do you need a Spouse? Not all women in my circles want to live alone and most of us, want someone to put out the fires that keep sparking down below. Not that a vibrator will not do the job, it's just not human and we yearn for that touch. Yesterday I heard Whoppie Goldberg say - she is not looking for a husband, that she has the company of her vibrator and a friend with benefits when needed. All I could say is ditto! At my age I am not looking for a husband, I was married before and now want a lover to love Me and only Me. Note - I did not say need. That is why I am still Single. That man has not found me yet! So the next question is. . have you put yourself in a place to be found? If that means that I got dressed up and stood on the corner at 5th street. The answer is NO. When I am out and about I dress appropriately & always walk in the door with Confidence. I do not leave home without confidence, even if I'm just going to the mall. According to an article I read in Cosmopolitan - There are 6 reasons why Ladies are still Single:
- You're Too Intimidating/Independent
- You're too Picky.
- You don't know how to play the Game.
- You should have Married that Guy.
- You're too Available
- You Have Issues.