Do you have your heart in it, or are you just spending time with your sisterfriends? On the prowl or keeping up appearances? Too many times we go out with friends when we prefer to be solo. You can be by yourself and Not be lonely, in the same way you can be with a group and Not be part of the gang. Chances are, if you do not have the desire to be out on the town, you will have a lousy time and be very bored before the intermission. Before you check the closet for something to wear, check yourself! Is it Your time or Party Time?